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Love Your Enemies.
Jesus on Love. Loving Enemies.
An Even More Inconvenient
Truth:
Love Your Enemies
by Rev. Dr. Mark D. Roberts
Copyright © 2007 by Mark D. Roberts
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An
Even More Inconvenient Truth 
Part 1 of series: An Even More Inconvenient Truth 
Posted for Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Al Gore and Leonardo DeCaprio,
as Gore is interrupted by the
Academy Awards orchestra
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As expected, Al Gore's global warming film, An Inconvenient
Truth, won the Oscar for Best Feature-Length Documentary.
Whatever you may think of Gore or his movie, you've got to
admit that Gore supplied one of the funniest moments in the
Academy Award program. It came early in the show, when he and
Leonardo DiCaprio took the stage to explain how the Oscars
had gone "green." DiCaprio, in a pleading voice,
asked Gore for the second time if he had "any other major announcement" to
make. Gore got choked up, and said something like: "Well,
given the overwhelming support I've received, I'd like to make
an announcement." Removing a written speech from his pocket,
Gore continued, "My fellow Americans . . . ." But
then the orchestra started up, cutting off the former Vice
President as if he were an overly loquacious award winner.
So much for his big announcement! It was a cleverly humorous
moment.
Al Gore believes that global warming is "an inconvenient
truth," and he has devoted himself to spreading the word.
In this series I'm not planning to consider Gore's convictions
or his mission. Rather, I want to focus on another "inconvenient
truth," one I consider much more troubling than global warming.
This truth doesn’t come from Al Gore, but from Jesus. And
if we were to take it seriously, it would change our lives far
more than our thermostats or our MPG ratings.
I'm thinking of the inconvenient truth that appears both in
the Gospel of Matthew and the Gospel of Luke. It proclaims, simply: "Love
your enemies" (Matt 5:44; Luke 6:27, 35). "Love your
enemies" is often held up as the core teaching of Jesus.
It's often praised as evidence that Jesus was an outstanding
religious teacher. But if it's really true that we should love
our enemies, I'd suggest that this is extremely inconvenient.
Why is it inconvenient? Well, for one thing, most of us don't
do this. If we should be loving our enemies, then we'll need
to change some basic behaviors, and this is never easy. Moreover,
many of us, even if we are Christians, have doubts about the
relevance of Jesus's teaching. Surely it doesn't apply to
all of life, we reason. Surely we're not supposed to let
people injure us. And surely we're not supposed to feel warm
affection for Al-Qaeda terrorists who'd be perfectly happy to
blow us up. So what are we to do with the clear and clearly inconvenient
teaching of Jesus to love our enemies?
Recently I preached on this text for my congregation at Irvine
Presbyterian Church. Some of what appears in this blog series
will be based on that sermon. I decided to begin by dealing,
not so much with the broader theological and ethical implications
of loving one's enemy, but rather with the practical, real life
challenges we face each day. I'll do the same in this series,
though ending with a few reflections on how love for enemies
might impact our thinking about things like war.
My decision to focus at first on the practical was motivated,
in part, by what Jesus said about hearing and doing His word:
“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do
not do what I tell you? I will show you what someone is like
who comes to me, hears my words, and acts on them. That one
is like a man building a house, who dug deeply and laid the
foundation on rock; when a flood arose, the river burst against
that house but could not shake it, because it had been well
built. But the one who hears and does not act is like a man
who built a house on the ground without a foundation. When
the river burst against it, immediately it fell, and great
was the ruin of that house.” (Luke 6:46-49)
No matter how we might apply the teaching of Jesus to the larger
issues of national and international politics, I want to help
us hear and do the word of Jesus in our daily lives. I'm convinced
that obedience to the word of Christ is absolutely foundational for
anyone who wants to be a faithful follower of Jesus.
So, then, here's my basic question for this series: How
can we love our enemies? I'll start to answer this question
in my next post.
A
Confession of Limited Perspective
Part 2 of the series: An Even More Inconvenient Truth
Posted for Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Yesterday I began a blog series that seeks to answer a simple
question: How can we love our enemies? The answer to
this question, as you may have guessed, is not nearly so simply
as the question itself.
As I begin this series, I should confess my limited perspective
and life experience. Though there have been some people in my
life who have sought to hurt me and make my life miserable, I've
never had enemies in any strong sense, surely not in the way
that some people have enemies. I talked about this in my book, No
Holds Barred. Allow me to quote a few paragraphs from Chapter
6 of this book:
I was first confronted by my limited experience of injustice
many years ago as I led a Bible study at a community college
in Los Angeles. The students who gathered to study were diverse:
ethnically, socially, economically, politically, and theologically.
Apart from living in Southern California and believing in Jesus,
we had very little in common.
Clint Eastwood, perhaps the most
famous alumnus of Los Angeles City College is someone
who, when in character, isn't especially committed to loving
his enemies.
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One afternoon I was leading a study of Jesus’s command: “Love
your enemies!” (Matthew 5:44). When I suggested rather
glibly that God always helps us love those who hurt us, a man
named Ricardo interjected, “Yes, but sometimes it’s
very hard to love your enemies.” I agreed, but once again
made such love sound rather simple. Ricardo kept emphasizing
how difficult it was. Finally I asked, “Ricardo, do you
have a hard time loving your enemies?”
“Yes,” he explained, “a very hard time.” He
then told a gripping story. When he was a teen-aged Christian
in Central America, he was part of a Christian evangelistic
movement. He and his friends shared the good news of Jesus
with their neighbors. They had no political agenda. But that’s
not how the government saw their activity. Fearing that Bible-believing
followers of Jesus would become politically uncooperative,
local officials ordered Ricardo and his friends to cease their
evangelistic efforts. They refused to comply out of faithfulness
to Christ. Not long afterward, while they were holding a prayer
meeting, police stormed the meeting hall. They grabbed the
leaders, took them outside, and shot them. Ricardo somehow
escaped. He ran home, gathered his few possessions, and began
the long trek that ultimately brought him to California.
When Ricardo finished his story my heart was deeply moved,
and also ashamed. I realized how cut off I was from the real
suffering of God’s people.
I share this story with you not to suggest that I shouldn't
speak about loving enemies. Indeed, my goal is to pass on Jesus's
wisdom on the topic, not my own. And Jesus surely knew plenty
about having enemies. But I think it's important for me to acknowledge
that I haven't experienced the need to love the sort of enemies
that many people in our world face each day. This means that
my exposition runs the risk of superficiality.
You might be inclined to respond: "But you do have real
enemies. There are Islamic radicals who would be only too happy
to kill you. And you spent much of your life living under the
threat of nuclear annihilation from Soviet nuclear weapons. So
you do have real enemies." I agree with this observation.
But it would be more pertinent if, for example, I had lost a
loved one in the 9/11 disasters, or if I were serving in the
U.S. armed forces in Iraq. In my daily life, the only Muslims
I know, who live three doors down from me, are gracious people,
about as far from enemies as anyone could be. So I've never been
face-to-face with an enemy who wished to take my life.
One might be inclined to say that most of us in the United States
don't really have the chance to love our enemies, and therefore
the teaching of Jesus is irrelevant to us. I believe, on the
contrary, that Jesus Himself shows how His command to love enemies
does in fact relate to the kinds of situations we regularly face
in life. I'll explain what I mean in my next post.
Love
Your Enemies: First Steps
Part 3 of the series: An Even More Inconvenient Truth
Posted for Thursday, March 1, 2007
Jesus said: "Love your enemies" (6:27). No doubt this
shocked his original hearers even more than it shocks us today.
After all, we've heard the "Love your enemies" line
before, and it's been praised by many as exemplary ethics. Such
wouldn't have been the case for Jesus's first audience. In fact,
some Jews in Jesus's day even encouraged, not love for enemies,
but hatred of them. Moreover, in context, the mention of enemies
would have immediately suggested to Jesus's listeners both the
Romans and their oppressive, self-serving vassals, the Herods. Love
our enemies? Jesus's audience must have must have wondered, How
can Jesus be serious?
Another kind of "first steps"
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It's important to note that loving one's enemies has little
to do with affection for them. Jesus is not saying, "You
should feel lots of warm fuzzies for the Roman soldiers who terrorize
you." Christian love is never primarily a matter of emotion,
but of action. To love is to act intentionally for the best interest
of another. In typically Semitic fashion, Jesus explains what
love for enemies entails by adding several parallel imperatives:
Love your enemies.
Do good to those who hate you,
Bless those who curse you,
Pray for those who abuse you. (Luke 6:27-28)
In other words, loving means doing good to, speaking well of/to,
and praying for people.
So what does this mean for us today? We can get tripped up by
the word "enemies," because most of us don't have full-fledged
enemies in our daily lives, as I explained in my last post. Sure,
we might identify Al-Qaeda radicals as our enemies, but most
of us won't have the chance to engage with them so as to show
love to them.
Does this mean the teaching of Jesus is irrelevant to us? Not
at all. In fact, the word translated in Luke 6:27 as "enemies" can
have a broader sense, referring to those who oppose us in one
way or another. Following Jesus's parallelism, your enemies would
include those who hate you, curse you, or abuse you. They are
the people who treat you badly, unfairly criticizing you, maliciously
gossiping about you, undermining you at work, chewing you out
at home, and so forth. Your enemies may not want to take your
life, but they do want to knock you down a few pegs, to wound
your heart and your reputation.
Jesus says we're to love these people, to do good to them, to
bless them, and to pray for them. This implies that we are not
to return evil for evil. If somebody cusses you out, don't cuss
back. If somebody says mean things behind your back, don't say
mean things behind their back. If somebody cuts you off in a
meeting, don't cut them off. When your spouse hurts your feelings,
don't hurt back.
Yet Jesus calls for more than simple non-retaliation. He
challenges us to do good to those who wrong us. To the
one who cusses you out, speak kindly. When somebody says mean
things behind your back, say positive things about that person
to others. When somebody cuts you off in a meeting, listen
attentively to that very person. When your spouse hurts your
feelings, offer kindness in return.
You may be thinking right now: This is crazy! Well,
you're getting close to the truth, because God's ways are not
our ways. They can look to us like craziness from a commonsensical
point of view. But if God's kingdom has come in Jesus, then we're
going to need a thoroughgoing change of mind. We're going to
need to see things and value them differently. We're going to
need what Jesus calls repentance.
As you hear what Jesus is saying and consider obeying it, you
might also be thinking: This is impossible! I can't do this! If
this thought has struck you, then you're getting close to a crucial
truth. Yes, you can't do it . . . in your own strength. You'll
only be able to do what Jesus commands with God's strength as
God empowers you through the Spirit.
So, then, let me ask you: How do you treat your "enemies"?
Really? Are you apt to retaliate when you are wronged? To fight
back? To get even? Jesus says, "Knock it off. Don't do that
anymore." But He goes still further, calling you and me
to love those who mistreat us, to offer kindness to those who
have been unkind to us. And when you respond, "I can't do
that," Jesus say, "I know. I'll help you."
I'm not suggesting this is easy, even with Jesus's help. In
fact, doing good to those who have wronged me is one of the hardest
things in my life. But if we seek to be faithful followers of
Jesus, then this is our calling.
Before I move on, I want to encourage you to take most literally
the command of Jesus to "pray for those who abuse you." If
you have been mistreated by people at work, or in your family,
or in this church, ask yourself: "Have I been praying for
them?" In most cases, the answer is "No." A starting
point for loving our enemies is praying for them, faithfully,
honestly, graciously, humbly.
Turning
the Other Cheek
Part 4 of the series: An Even More Inconvenient Truth
Posted for Tuesday, March 6, 2007
I'm picking up where I
left off a few days ago, having begun explaining what Jesus
meant when He said that we're to love our enemies.
Jesus expounded still further on what it means to love our enemies
by saying, "If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the
other also" (6:29). When we hear this today, we tend to
think that Jesus was describing an act of physical violence.
We interpret Him as saying, "Don't fight back when you're
attacked." But, in context, striking on the cheek wasn't
so much about inflicting pain as it was about doling out shame.
In fact, one commentator notes, "The blow on the right cheek
was the most grievous insult in the ancient Near East." (IVP
Bible Background Commentary: New Testament © 1993 by
Craig S. Keener. Electronic text hypertexted and prepared by
OakTree Software, Inc. Version: 1.0) We might paraphrase Jesus's
teaching this way: When somebody insults you and wounds your
pride, don't defend yourself and don't retaliate.
Again, let's acknowledge how hard this is, impossible, really,
without divine help. Everything in us and everything in our culture
says: Stand up for yourself! Get even! Hit back! Don't be a wimp!
Yet Jesus says, "If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer
the other also."
I do want to remind you, however, that Jesus doesn't expect
us merely to take what people dish out without any response.
You may recall that in Matthew 18 Jesus said, "If another
member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault
when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you,
you have regained that one" (18:15). Then, if this doesn't
work, you're to take along a couple others to help bring about
reconciliation. So Jesus isn't telling us to be everybody's doormat.
There is an appropriate way to respond to wrong done against
you. But what you're not to do is to retaliate in the ordinary,
expected, all-too-human way.
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I should also warn us at this point not to misconstrue Jesus's
teaching so that sin is ignored, minimized, or excused. Some
people, for example, have interpreted turning the other cheek
to mean that if a woman is physically abused by her husband,
she should just take it. But, in fact, Jesus is not addressing
such a horrible act of brutality, but rather a case of insult.
Moreover, if a woman is being mistreated by her husband, it's
her duty and the responsibility of her Christian community to
confront the abuser directly. It's not even loving to let a person
continue in his sin without calling him to repentance, let alone
to let a Christian sister to be hurt by her husband.
Over the years, I've watched prominent Christian leaders as
they receive criticism, even cruel insults. Some seem to believe
that Jesus's call to turn the other cheek is no longer relevant,
at least not to them. When they are struck with harsh words,
they send harsh words right back. But then I've watched other
Christian leaders exemplify the counter-cultural and counter-intuitive
way of Jesus. Most recently, I was struck by the way Rick Warren
responded to the virulent criticism he endured because he invited
Barack Obama to speak at Warren's church in a conference on AIDS/HIV.
Many Christians slapped Warren's cheek with their harsh words.
But Warren refused to slap back. Now whether you support Warren's
decision to invite Obama to his church or not, you have to respect
Warren's exemplary response. In my opinion, many of Warren's
critics would do well to consider how Jesus's call to love their
enemies is relevant when they're upset with a brother in Christ.
Give to Everyone
Who Begs from You 
Part 5 in the series: A More Inconvenient Truth 
Posted for Wednesday, March 7, 2007
You can see my dorm, Straus Hall, in the center of this picture. My bedroom
window lies within the red box.
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Jesus said, "Give to everyone who begs from you" (6:30).
This sounds simple enough to follow, but I can't tell you how
many debates I have been in with other Christians about this
particular verse. When I was in college, my friends and I dealt
with this issue almost daily, because there were many beggars
in Cambridge, Massachusetts. During my freshman year, my dorm
sat right on Harvard Square. I couldn't go to the bank or get
an ice cream cone from Brigham's without running into folks who'd
ask me: "Got a qwa-tuh?" (That's Bostonian for "Do
you have a quarter, please?")
Then, I spent my first seven years of professional ministry
on the staff of the First Presbyterian Church of Hollywood. In
any given week we had literally hundreds of street people coming
to the church looking for financial assistance. It was truly
impossible for us to give to everyone who begged from us. We
had neither enough time nor enough stuff. Moreover, there was
the perennial problem of what people would do with what we gave
them. Money would, in many cases, be used for cigarettes or alcohol.
Food vouchers would often be sold on the streets, with the proceeds
supporting unhealthy habits. Literally following the command
of Jesus seemed to be enabling harmful behavior, not helping
people in genuine need.
So what do we do with the command of Jesus to "Give to
everyone who begs from you"? It's true that in the time
of Jesus most beggars needed the basics of food and shelter,
and wouldn't have squandered their alms on unnecessary and unwholesome
items. Moreover, it's also true that Jesus wasn't laying out
here a systematic ethics of charitable giving. He was using hyperbole–exaggeration,
if you will–to get His audience's attention and to make
a striking point. God help us not to blunt this point with our
rationalizations! Yes, it might in fact be true that there are
times when we ought not to give to one who begs, or at least
we should not give what that person asks. But our habit, our
pattern, our inclination should always be in the direction of
generosity. Better to err by giving away too much than by withholding
too much.
Will we be deceived sometimes? No doubt. Will we feel ripped
off? I'm sure of it. I've felt this way dozens of times throughout
my life. But then I remember that Jesus said, "From anyone
who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt," and "if
anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again" (Luke
6:29-30). I'm quite sure that when I finally stand before the
judgment throne of Christ, He won't say to me: "Mark, you
were too generous. You were a patsy. You gave away too much."
Do to
Others as You Would Have Them Do to You
Part 6 in the series: A More Inconvenient Truth
Posted for Thursday, March 8, 2007
Today is a special day for my family, literally. March 8th is
what we call "Gary's Special Day." On this day in 1961
we adopted my brother Gary. It was one of the greatest days of
my life. Every year thereafter as I was growing up we'd do something
fun as a family. For Gary, it was like having a second birthday.
My brother Gary showing his prowess as a bowler. Professionally, he's a sheriff
in Los Angeles.
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There were times, however, when Gary and I encountered a bit
of conflict in our boyhood relationship. For example, one time
when Gary was about six years old, he clobbered me with a stick.
In pain, I tried to show him that he shouldn't do such things,
arguing that hitting me wasn't what Jesus wanted him to do. He
disagreed, saying to me robustly: "Do unto others what you
want to do unto them."
Well, Gary was in the ballpark, but didn't get it quite right.
In fact, Jesus said, "Do to others as you would have them
do to you" (6:31). Interestingly, there are quite a few
parallels in Jewish and other sources to this saying of Jesus,
though they're not quite the same. The most common Jewish rule
was given expression by Rabbi Hillel, who said, "What is
hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor, that is the whole
Torah, while the rest is commentary" (b. Sab. 31a).
From the other side of the world, Confucius once said, "What
you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others" (Analects 15:23).
(For these and other examples, see Darrell Bock, Luke,
Vol 1, [Baker, 1994] pp. 596-597.) But, you no doubt noticed,
these statements approach the issue from the negative: Don't
do to others what you don't want done to yourself. Jesus is unique
among moral teachers in the strength and clarity of the positive:
Do to others what you want done to yourself.
Now there's a trustworthy rule of thumb for human behavior.
When in doubt, do to others what you would like to have done
to you. If you and I would only follow this rule, we'd be home
free in the ethical and relational realm. If you and I would
do this, virtually every conflict in our families would evaporate.
Plus, we'd no longer waste energy in our lives hurting each other,
but we'd be able to focus even more on the ministry of the kingdom.
You'll notice that Jesus didn't qualify the "others" to
whom we are to do as we wish they'd do to us. He didn't say "Do
only to those you like what you'd like them to do to you." In
context, it's clear that He's including among the others those
we'd consider our enemies. "Treat even your enemies as you'd
like to be treated." Now that's a tall order!
I wonder what our lives would be like if we too seriously the
call to do to others as we'd like them to do to us. It would
be an interesting to try this for one week. Treat the checkout
clerk as you'd like to be treated. Treat the people in your office
as you'd like to be treated. Do to your spouse as you'd like
your spouse to do to you. And so forth, and so on. Why not give
it a try?
Motivation for Loving
Our Enemies
Part 7 in the series: A More Inconvenient Truth
Posted for Friday, March 9, 2007
I've been working my way through a passage in Luke 6 in which
Jesus teaches us to love our enemies. Today I want to focus on
our motivation for doing something that is both counter-intuitive
and counter-cultural. Why would we choose to love our enemies?
Jesus explains what should motivate us in the following passage:
But love your enemies, do good, and lend, expecting nothing
in return. Your reward will be great, and you will be children
of the Most High; for he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.
Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful (6:35-36).
My son Nathan and I enjoying each other many years ago. Even as human
fathers delight in their children, so our Heavenly Father delights in us.
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Why would we be inclined to love our enemies? First, we
do so in anticipation of a great reward. And what is this?
Well, it may be, in part, the reward that comes in the end,
where our lives are judged by God. But this isn't the all of
it, or even the main part of it. The reward we receive
when we do what honors God is the knowledge of God's delight
in our obedience. Our reward is the "Well done, good
and faithful servant" that echoes in our souls through
the voice of the Spirit. Our reward is knowing that we are
living as faithful children of the Most High God, to Him be
all the glory!
There have been times in my life when I have tried to do what
Jesus demands in this passage, loving and doing good to those
who have mistreated me. In some instances I have seen people's
hearts change, and this has been wonderful. But there have been
many other times when my best efforts have not born the relational
fruit I had desired. To this day I feel pain over certain relationships
in which I did my very best to love even when I got dumped on
in return. I still yearn for reconciliation that might never
come this side of heaven. And, honestly, I have sometimes felt
like a naïve fool when I've opened my soul to people who
used the occasion to trample on me still further. But I have
taken comfort in the knowledge that God knows my heart and is
pleased with me. And, in the end, nothing matters more than this.
I long for my life to give God pleasure, even as I seek to glorify
and enjoy Him forever.
So, first of all, we are motivated to love our enemies by the
assurance that our actions glorify God. Second, we are motivated
to love our enemies because of the relationship we already have
with God as His beloved children. You see, the more we live
in this relationship, the more we will seek to be like God, and
the more we will in fact become like God. We will be kind to
the ungrateful and the wicked because God "is kind to the
ungrateful and the wicked" (6:35). And we will be merciful
because our Heavenly "Father is merciful" (6:36).
After all, it is only by God's mercy that we have been saved
from the kingdom of darkness into His kingdom of light. Our experience
of divine mercy translates into our being willing and able to
offer mercy to others. God's mercy poured out into our hearts
becomes channeled to others through our imitation of our heavenly
Father as His beloved children. So God's own mercy sets the standard
for us. And God's own mercy alive within us enables us to be
merciful.
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