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Advent Wreath Guide; Guide for Advent Wreath; Advent Wreath; Advent Worship; Advent Devotions; Family Advent

Preparing for the Coming of Christ:
A Guide for Using the Advent Wreath

by Rev. Dr. Mark D. Roberts

Copyright © 2008 by Mark D. Roberts

Note: You may download this resource at no cost, for personal use or for use in a Christian ministry, as long as you are not publishing it for sale. All I ask is that you give credit where credit is due. For all other uses, please contact me at mark@markdroberts.com. Thank you.

Table of Contents
Introduction
The Lighting of the First Candle (on the first Sunday of Advent or thereabouts)
The Lighting of the Second Candle (on the second Sunday of Advent or thereabouts)
The Lighting of the Third Candle (on the third Sunday of Advent or thereabouts)
The Lighting of the Fourth Candle (on the fourth Sunday of Advent or thereabouts)
The Lighting of the Christ Candle (on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day)

Introduction

Advent is a season of waiting, expecting, and hoping.  Beginning four Sundays prior to Christmas and ending on Christmas Eve, Advent helps us to prepare for the coming, or "advent" of the Christ child at Christmas.  (The word "advent" comes from the Latin word that means "coming.") 

For hundreds of years Christians have used an Advent wreath to inspire their hopes for the coming of Christ.  By lighting candles and reading Bible verses, we are reminded about the meaning of Christ's birth and become more excited about his coming in the past, in the future, and in our own lives.

There is no set meaning for the candles of the Advent wreath (except for the middle candle, which always signifies the birth of Jesus the Christ).  Some wreaths use all white candles; others use three purple candles, one pink candle, and one white candle in the middle.  The purple candles remind us of how serious and solemn God's people have been in waiting for the Messiah.  The pink signifies the joy of our waiting.  The white is triumphant and celebrative because Christ is born. 

What follows is a guide for personal worship that can accompany the lighting of the candles of the Advent wreath.  You can do this on your own with a real Advent wreath. Or you can do this online by "lighting" the wreath through appropriate clicking. Or you can use this guide with your family, which might certainly include friends. All families are different, and I encourage you to adapt or to change what is suggested -- or do something completely original.  Parents will want to make changes to fit the developmental stages of their children. 

Speaking of children, they have great expectations and hopes during Advent -- usually associated with Christmas presents, Santa Claus, holiday celebrations, and so forth.  Rather than discouraging these hopes (which is a "hopeless" task!), I would urge you to help your children get the "feel" of Advent by relating their hopes to biblical Advent themes. 

I pray that this guide will help you prepare for the coming of the Christ child!


The Lighting of the First Candle: Waiting for the Shepherd

The First Sunday of Advent (or thereabouts)

We Remember the Meaning of Advent

[Note: Someone can read or paraphrase the following.  Or you might want to discuss the meaning of Advent together.]

Advent is a word that means "coming" or "visit”.  In the Christian season of Advent we prepare for the "advent" of Christ at Christmas.  Our preparation includes many things:

• We remember Israel's hope for the coming of God's Messiah to save, to forgive, and to restore them.

• We remember our hope for the second coming of Jesus.

• We remember our need for a Savior to save us from our sins.

• We prepare to welcome Christ at Christmas into our world . . . and into our hearts.

By lighting one candle each week of Advent, we help ourselves to get ready for the birth of Jesus.  The candles have different meanings, each based upon the Bible.  These meanings help us to understand how special the birth of Jesus is for us.

Today we focus on the coming of Christ as our Shepherd.

Prayer for God's Help

[This prayer can be read, or simply used as a model.]

Dear God, thank you for this season of Advent that helps us to prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas.  As we read the Bible and light a candle, may excitement for Christ's coming burn in our hearts.  Amen.

Scripture Readings

[Parents, you may wish to abbreviate or eliminate certain readings depending on the age(s) of your child(ren).  You may also want to read these selections out of a Children's Bible.]

Psalm 80:1-7

In this Psalm we join the people of Israel as they invite God their Shepherd to save and to restore them.

Isaiah 40:1-11

This passage looks ahead to the coming of the Lord, who will care for his people like a shepherd.

Revelation 7:9-17

Like God's people before the coming of Christ, we also look ahead to the time when Christ, who is both the Lamb and our Shepherd, will finish his work and "God will wipe away every tear" from our eyes.

Lighting of the Candle

[As someone lights the first purple candle, the following should be read or paraphrased. If you're doing this online, in order to "light" the next Advent candle, click on the wick of the purple candles until you "light" the right one.]

We light this candle because, like God's people centuries ago, we also look forward with hope to the coming of the Shepherd.  The purple color of the candle reminds us of the seriousness of our hope.

Prayer of Hope

[To be read or paraphrased.]

Dear God, as we light this candle, we hope for your coming as our Good Shepherd.  Please gather us in your arms, feed us with spiritual food, wipe away every tear from our eyes, and "let your face shine, that we may be saved”.  Come, our Shepherd!  Amen.

Closing Song

[To be sung to the tune of "O come let us adore him" from "O Come All Ye Faithful."]

O come to us, our Shepherd,
O come to us, our Shepherd,
O come to us, our Shepherd,
Christ the Lord! 


The Lighting of the Second Candle: Waiting for Forgiveness

The Second Sunday of Advent (or thereabouts)

[Re-light the first purple candle]

We Remember the Meaning of Advent

Advent is a word that means "coming" or "visit".  In the Christian season of Advent we prepare for the "advent" of Christ at Christmas.  Our preparation includes many things:

• We remember Israel's hope for the coming of God's Messiah to save, to forgive, and to restore them.

• We remember our hope for the second coming of Jesus.

• We remember our need for a Savior to save us from our sins.

• We prepare to welcome Christ at Christmas into our world . . . and into our hearts.

By lighting one candle each week of Advent, we help ourselves to get ready for the birth of Jesus.  Last week we lit a candle that signified our waiting for God our Shepherd.

Today we focus on the coming of Christ who brings forgiveness from our sins.

Prayer for God's Help

Dear God, thank you for this season of Advent that helps us to prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas.  As we read the Bible and light a candle, may excitement for Christ's coming burn in our hearts.  Amen.

Scripture Readings

Psalm 130:1-8

In this psalm we join the psalmist in crying out for God's forgiveness.

Jeremiah 31:31-34

God promises to make a new covenant with us, in which our sins will be forgiven and forgotten.

Luke 1:68-79

When an angel appears to Zechariah in the temple and tells him that his wife will give birth to a son, the old man doesn't believe the angel.  As a result, Zechariah is unable to speak for many months, until immediately after the birth of his son John (the Baptist).  Right after the birth, Zechariah is filled with the Holy Spirit and speaks the prophecy that we will read.

Lighting of the Candle

[As someone lights the second purple candle, the following should be read or paraphrased. If you're doing this online, in order to "light" the next Advent candle, click on the wick of the purple candles until you "light" the right one.]

We light this candle because, like God's people centuries ago, we also need a Savior who will forgive our sins.  The purple color reminds us of the seriousness of our sin and our great need for God's forgiveness.

Prayer of Hope

Dear God, as we light this candle, we recognize our sin and our need for a savior.  We wait for your forgiveness in Christ.  We long to be purified so that we might present ourselves to you in righteousness.  Come, Our Savior!  Amen!

Closing Song

[To be sung to the tune of "O come let us adore him" from "O Come All Ye Faithful."]

O come to us, forgive us,
O come to us, forgive us,
O come to us, forgive us,
Christ the Lord! 


The Lighting of the Third Candle: Waiting with Joy

The Third Sunday of Advent (or thereabouts)

[Re-light the first two purple candles]

We Remember the Meaning of Advent

Advent is a word that means "coming" or "visit".  In the Christian season of Advent we prepare for the "advent" of Christ at Christmas.  Our preparation includes many things:

• We remember Israel's hope for the coming of God's Messiah to save, to forgive, and to restore them.

• We remember our hope for the second coming of Jesus.

• We remember our need for a Savior to save us from our sins.

• We prepare to welcome Christ at Christmas into our world . . . and into our hearts.

By lighting one candle each week of Advent, we help ourselves to get ready for the birth of Jesus.  So far we have lit two candles.  The first helped us to hope for God our Shepherd; with the second we asked God to come and forgive our sins.

Today we remember the joy of waiting -- because we know how the story ends!

Prayer for God's Help

Dear God, thank you for this season of Advent that helps us to prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas.  As we read the Bible and light a candle, may excitement for Christ's coming burn in our hearts.  Amen.

Scripture Readings

Psalm 126:1-6

This psalm celebrates God's restoration of Israel -- and it cries out to God for future restoration.

Zephaniah 3:14-20

Through the prophet Zephaniah God looks ahead to the time when he will renew and heal his people.  It will be a day of great rejoicing, both for them and for God!

Philippians 4:4-7

We also rejoice in the Lord, in part because we know that "the Lord is near."  This means, not only that God is with us right now, but that Christ is coming soon. 

Lighting of the Candle

[As someone lights the pink candle, the following should be read or paraphrased. If you're doing this online, in order to "light" the next Advent candle, click on the wick of the pink candle.]

We light this candle because, like God's people centuries ago, we know that God has come in Christ and that Christ will come again.  We rejoice in God's work in history and in the future.  The pink color means joy!

Prayer of Hope

Dear God, as we light this candle, we rejoice.  We know how the first act of the story ended -- with the birth of Jesus the Messiah.  And we know that he will come again in glory.  So even though the story isn't over, we rejoice in our hope.  We wait for you, rejoicing!  Amen!

Closing Song

[To be sung to the tune of "O come let us adore him" from "O Come All Ye Faithful."]

We wait for you, rejoicing,
We wait for you, rejoicing,
We wait for you, rejoicing,
Christ the Lord! 


The Lighting of the Fourth Candle: Waiting for the Son

The Fourth Sunday of Advent (or thereabouts)

[Re-light two purple candles and the pink candle.]

We Remember the Meaning of Advent

Advent is a word that means "coming" or "visit".  In the Christian season of Advent we prepare for the "advent" of Christ at Christmas.  Our preparation includes many things:

• We remember Israel's hope for the coming of God's Messiah to save, to forgive, and to restore them.

• We remember our hope for the second coming of Jesus.

• We remember our need for a Savior to save us from our sins.

• We prepare to welcome Christ at Christmas into our world . . . and into our hearts.

By lighting one candle each week of Advent, we help ourselves to get ready for the birth of Jesus.  So far we have lit three candles.  The first reminded us to wait for God our Shepherd.  With the second we asked the Lord to come and forgive our sins.  The third, pink, candle signified our joy as we wait.

Today we focus on the coming of the Son -- the son of Mary, the Son of God!

Prayer for God's Help

Dear God, thank you for this season of Advent that helps us to prepare for the coming of Christ at Christmas.  As we read the Bible and light a candle, may excitement for Christ's coming burn in our hearts.  Amen.

Scripture Readings

Psalm 89:1-4, 19-37, 46-52

This psalm celebrates God's covenant with David and with the descendants of David.  He even calls God "my Father" (vs. 26).  But the psalmist composed this psalm at a time when God's blessing upon Israel seemed very far away.  He calls upon the Lord to remember his covenant to David.

Isaiah 9:1-7

Deliverance will come for God's people through the "son" who is given to them.  He will sit on the throne of David and his kingdom will last forever.

Luke 1:26-38

The angel Gabriel announces to Mary that she is pregnant and will give birth to a son.  Her son will also be "the Son of the Most High" and will sit on the throne of David.  He will be the reigning Son of David and the divine Son of God!

Lighting of the Candle

[As someone lights the final purple candle, the following should be read or paraphrased. If you're doing this online, click on the wick of the final purple candle.]

We light this candle because we look forward with eagerness to the birth of a child, the son of Mary and the Son of God!  The purple color reminds us of how serious we are in looking forward to the Son's birth.

Prayer of Hope

Dear God, as we light this candle, we look ahead with hope to the birth of your Son -- the Son of David, the son of Mary.  May we be prepared to welcome him with open arms and open hearts.  O come now, Son of David!  Amen!

Closing Song

[To be sung to the tune of "O come let us adore him" from "O Come All Ye Faithful."]

O come now, Son of David,
O come now, Son of David,
O come now, Son of David,
Christ the Lord! 


The Lighting of the Christ Candle: Our Waiting is Over!

Christmas Eve or Christmas Day

[Re-light the three purple candles and the pink candle]

We Celebrate the Birth of Christ

In the season of Advent we have used the Advent wreath and its candles to help us get ready for this great celebration of the birth of Christ.

When we lit the first purple candle, we asked God to come and be our Good Shepherd.  God our Shepherd has come in Jesus Christ!

When we lit the second purple candle, we asked God to come and forgive our sins.  God has come in Jesus Christ to take our sins and die upon the cross so that we might be forgiven!

When we lit the third, pink candle, we felt joyful even in our longing for Christ to come.  Christ, who has been born in a manger, will come again in glory to wipe away every tear from our eyes!

When we lit the fourth candle, we remembered that Christ would come as a son -- the son of Mary, the Son of David, and the Son of God!  This Son has been born!  He is Immanuel -- God with us!

Today we celebrate the birth of Jesus the Christ, Jesus the Good Shepherd, Jesus who forgives our sins, Jesus who will come again, Jesus the son of Mary, the Son of David, and the very Son of God!

Prayer for God's Help

Dear God, as we light the center candle today, may we celebrate with full joy the birth of your Son, Jesus the Christ.  Amen!

Scripture Readings

Micah 5:1-5

God promises through the prophet Micah that his future rule will come from Bethlehem, even though this town is, indeed, a "little town" and quite insignificant.

Luke 2:1-20

Jesus the Messiah is born in Bethlehem!

Psalm 145

Let us join the psalmist in offering praise to God for his mighty works!

Lighting of the Candle

[As someone lights the center, white candle, the following should be read or paraphrased.]

We light this candle with great joy and celebration, because Christ is born in Bethlehem.  God's Son has come into the world to be our Savior! 

Prayer of Hope

Dear God, as we light this candle, we rejoice in the birth of your Son.  May we worship him, welcome him, and make room for him in our hearts.  O come, let us adore him!  Amen!

Closing Song

O come let us adore him,
O come let us adore him,
O come let us adore him,
Christ the Lord!

 

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